MOTIVATION...
About
yourself:
Who you are is more valuable than what you do. Your
worth as a person is not based on your intelligence,
your grades, how hard you work. It is enough to be
you.
Respect and value the opinions of others - but realize
that ultimately you must respect and satisfy yourself.
Practice
impulse control by imagining the consequences of your
actions. How will you feel afterwards? Then, act so
that you will be satisfied with yourself.
Write out a plan for yourself. Jot down personal and
academic goals and priorities, and reread them when
you're in a slump.
Don't worry about or dwell on things that go wrong.
Concentrate on your successes. Remember that little
successes build up just as quickly as little failures.
Give yourself time to change. Forgive yourself for
backsliding and making mistakes. Don't be a perfectionist.
Make approaching your goals the basis of your self-respect
rather than reaching your goals.
Don't allow feelings of inadequacy to get you down.
Think about all the things you do have going for you.
If you're feeling down or hopeless, imagine the worst
that could happen - exaggerate your fantasies - and
then laugh at them. Do this to put yourself and your
current situation in perspective.
When you're down, go to someone whom you know cares
for you and ask him or her to give you a "pep
talk," reminding you of your good qualities and
talents and abilities and/or make a list of your good
qualities and read them when you need to.
Be willing to risk failure for something you really
care about. Be willing to risk success, too! If you're
irrationally afraid of something, do it a lot; the
fear will wear off.
Learn to recognize, sooner, events which are not turning
out as they should - and act to redirect them to your
satisfaction.
About
your work:
No one else is forcing you to do your work. You've
decided to take it on. Don't waste your energy in
hostility toward others. Accept and live with your
own decisions.
Start early. The sooner you start, the sooner you'll
be free to do other activities, the less worry you'll
experience, the more time you'll have to recover from
mistakes and wrong directions. Expect a certain amount
of tension. Use that tension as energy to get yourself
moving.
Different people have different styles of working.
For example, some people need competition to do their
best, while others work better at their own pace.
Respect your work style and arrange the conditions
you need to do well.
If you have a long, hard task, make it as comfortable
for you as possible. Do it in short bits (but stay
with it), do it wearing comfortable clothes, among
friends, in familiar surroundings, with whatever you
need to keep your spirits up while you work at it.
Pure, unadulterated motivation is rare (most of the
time); you just have to keep plugging away. If necessary,
pause every now and then to remind yourself why you
have chosen to take on certain work, what you expect
to get out of it. Give yourself a pep talk.
When you've done something you feel good about, reward
yourself with a treat: you deserve it! Completed tasks
keep interest and motivation at a higher level. Try
to complete a task, accomplish a sub-goal, before
you quit for the day.
Learning
Skills Center
Jester A332 - (512) 471-3614 The University of Texas
at Austin