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For
some, a public display of affection is the ultimate
intimate gesture. Most movie theaters will let you buy
a slide that plays onscreen before the feature. You
can design your own and watch as the entire theater
strains to see the lucky proposee's astonished expression.
Convince
the local theater to spell out your proposal on their
marquee. Phrase it like a film title: "The Love
of a Lifetime, starring (insert names here)."
 Take
the stage! Get in touch with the stage manager of an
appropriately themed production and propose after the
cast's curtain call (the stage manager will prep everyone
and get you in position). Seven people have proposed
after I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change, a musical
revue about relationships running in New York City,
Boston, Detroit and Coral Gables.
Have
your proposal painted on a billboard en route to his
or her office. Park beneath it or await their arrival
at work, armed with champagne ready for toasting.
| Marriage
on your mind? To start the party, we've gathered
a plethora of proposal ideas you can customize to
floor your intended. Remember that your sweetie
will be telling the story of how you proposed to
friends and strangers for the rest of her -- or
his! -- life. Read our proposal primer and avoid
common mistakes before you set your plan in motion,
then pull back Cupid's arrow and give it your best
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Take
out a full-page ad in a newspaper you know your honey
reads daily. Be nearby while they read, lest you miss
the look on his or her face!
Gather
all your friends for a big softball game. Give the outfielders
signs that spell your intended's name and, "Will
you marry me?" When he or she comes up to bat,
signal them to display the signs. Tell your soon-be-fiance
that if he or she hits one out of the park, a different
kind of diamond awaits them!
Make
a list of ten reasons you'd like to marry your beloved.
Read them to him or her in front of a crowd, have a
singing telegram deliver them, or send them written
on note cards one by one over the course of a day (or
ten!), with the last card arriving via personal messenger
(you!).
We
had to add this one: Create a Web page declaring your
love and intentions. Leave your sweetie a clue with
the Web address written on it -- don't say a word. After
the proposal has been officially accepted (which of
course it will be!), he or she can proudly send the
page to friends and family.

Draw
a bath for the two of you and place a floating candle
or rubber ducky in the middle with a ring tied around
its neck. Make a path of roses leading to the tub.
Speaking
of paths, turn off all the lights in your apartment
and make a trail of candles that leads to a circle of
votives positioned around a ring.
Give
your girlfriend a foot massage and place the ring on
her little toe.
Send
your sweetie on a treasure hunt. Start with a clue at
home. Then send him or her on a tour of your favorite
spots -- all over town, or just around the house. When
he or she gets to the last hint, the treasure should
be you offering up a ring or other sentimental token.
They won't need another clue to figure out what you
mean.

Sometimes
the key isn't how you pop the question, but where. Find
a special place, maybe the bar where you first kissed
or the Chevy backseat where you first uh -- well, you
know. A place that means something to both of you. Once
you're in position, just kneel and ask. Your honey will
always remember that you remembered.
Tie
a red velvet ribbon from one spot in your home to another.
Attach little notes recalling perfect moments in your
relationship along the way. You wait at the last stop,
ring in hand.
You
needn't propose with a diamond ring. Buy any jewelry
piece or a watch and inscribe it with, "Marry me."

Want
to really surprise your sweetheart? Cut out the bottom
of a big box, wrap it with pretty paper and ribbon,
and attach a card that says, "What's inside the
box is a gift to last a lifetime." "Deliver"
yourself to his or her office or front door.
A
surprise trip is sure to set the mood. Blindfolds and
intricate secret plans (you'll have to pack his or her
bags) are a must to increase the thrill factor. Once
you've reached your destination, pop the question.
Is
sweetie a deep sleeper? Slip the ring on his or her
finger while they're dozing and wake them with champagne
and strawberries. The gesture will just seem romantic
-- until they discover a new piece of jewelry adorns
them!
Food
is a tempting addition to any successful proposal! Spell
out, "Will you marry me?" in M&Ms, jellybeans,
or Hershey's Kisses on the kitchen table, bed, or coffee
table. Send him or her in to read it; when they say
yes, you can toast your future with a mutual sugar rush!

Freeze
the ring in a homemade Popsicle, and give your sweet
two treats in one!
Surprise
your honey with an intricate gift basket. Pile in yummy
delicacies -- the best chocolate, caviar, coffee --
but don't limit yourself to food. You could also include
silk slippers, a book or CD. Hide the ring among all
these wonderful presents (in its box, so it doesn't
get lost in the goodies).
If
you're dining in a fancy restaurant, ask the wait staff
to write, "Will you marry me?" in chocolate
sauce around the rim of his or her dessert plate.
Serve
a dinner of aphrodisiacs at home and place the ring
inside an oyster shell.
Make
your intended breakfast in bed. Propose to him or her
while they feel ultra-cozy and pampered.

Draw
a hopscotch board on the sidewalk and invite your honey
out for a game. Once he or she has succumbed to a little
childhood play, replace the pebble you're using with
the real rock!
Spell
your proposal out in glow-in-the-dark star stickers
on your ceiling. Get into bed, turn the lights off,
and wait for the inevitable gasp.
Write
"Will You Marry Me?" on the underside of a
kite and take flight one warm, breezy afternoon.
Spell
out your proposal with refrigerator magnets.
Scratch
your proposal into the frost on his or her car's windshield.
If
it's Easter season, paint one word each from the phrase
"Will you marry me?" on four eggs and hide
them with the rest, so he or she has to find them all
to make a complete sentence! Definitely make "marry"
the hardest egg to find. You can throw in other eggs
with funny verbs painted on them to throw your egghead
off -- like kick, tickle, and love!

Go
to the beach with your honey of honeys. Casually build
a sandcastle (at a safe distance from the ocean!), and
place the ring on the highest turret. Invite him or
her to admire your handiwork, then pop the question.
Go
for a sunset sail and propose at sea.
If
you're vacationing in a warm place (or you live in a
warm place, lucky dogs), tie the ring onto your hot
thang's new string bikini -- or in the lacing of his
surf shorts -- and announce that you want to take the
plunge!
While
your beloved naps on the beach, sneak away and spell
out your intention in seashells. Then go for an afternoon
stroll and let the shells do all the work.
Take
your darlin' to the local Fourth of July fireworks show,
and have someone announce your proposal before your
whole town.
Gather
your families together for a summer barbecue and make
your proposal a family affair.
Plan
a scavenger hunt through a local park. Pack a picnic,
and when you get to the park, send him or her along
to find the first clue. Once they're out of sight, make
yourself the last clue in a romantic spot with champagne
on ice and ring in hand.
Invite
Mr. or Ms. Right to a private pool party and send the
ring floating toward them on a raft. (Note: This doesn't
work in Jacuzzis.)
For
a truly classy approach: Write your proposal in sunscreen
on your tummy, so that your tan will "stencil in"
the words. She will be so touched you've taken such
an, um, interesting approach, she will accept immediately.

Hire
a skywriter to spell your proposal on high.
Tongue-tied?
Hire a plane to fly a banner with your "Marry me
(insert name here)" message written on it. Take
your honey to a wide-open space -- a beach, park, or
stadium -- and simply point.
Hire
a plane to draw huge hearts and your initials in the
sky. When your sweetie notices what the pilot is doing,
tell him or her that your love was heaven sent.

Flowers
always charm people -- what else exists solely to look
beautiful? (Except your fiance, of course!) String the
ring on a ribbon and use it to tie a bouquet of wonderful
flowers (daffodils, tulips, lilies, or whatever reminds
you of him or her) together.
Go
for symbolic power. Instead of the standard, albeit
lovely, bouquet of roses, present him or her with a
potted orchid. Put the ring beside the stem (in its
box, so it doesn't get lost in the Spanish moss). The
orchid will last a long time, will always be regal,
and will bloom time and time again (just like your love).
Plant
a colorful window box of forget-me-nots for him or her.
Write one word each from the phrase "Will you marry
me?" on four garden markers.
Sneak
into his or her home or office armed with rose petals.
In the biggest letters space will allow, spell out,
"Will You Marry Me?"

If
it's cold and snowy, build a snowman -- or snowwoman
-- and set the ring box in his or her stick arms.
Propose
in a different language, or lots of different languages
-- starting with French, the language of love.
Buy
a baby animal that he or she has always wanted (bunny,
kitten, puppy) and loosely tie the ring around its neck.
Make a commitment to the pet and each other. Or, substitute
a stuffed animal -- still fuzzy, but less maintenance!
Play
Hangman and have the phrase be "Marry Me."
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