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Body
Language during Interview
"Maybe
it was something I said." That's a comm ent
you frequently hear from job seekers who didn't get
the job they wanted.
While
strong verbal communication skills are essential during
any employment negotiation, there's also something else
to consider: Maybe it wasn't something you said, it
was something you didn't say.
When
applying for a job, you try to convince the interviewer
you're the right person for it, and most people translate
that into relating what they've done or what they can
do for the company. That's important, but you need nonverbal
c ommunication
to emphasize it. It is estimated that nonverbal communication
like body language, facial expression, tone of voice,
rate of speech etc account for as much as 50 percent
of the impact your communication makes.
Says
Kavya, the HR head of CRC Systems, "A candidate's body
language is what makes me understand if he is sure or
not about what he says. Body language portrays personality."
Managing
Director of Bouruka Power Corporation, S Chandrashekar
agrees. "I would expect a candidate to be confident.
Well yes his qualification and knowledge are the first
priorities, but then it is the body language which makes
me understand if he has all those qualities."
Worried
about what your interviewer will make of your body language?
Here are some tips:
- Maintain
eye contact. Look directly at the interviewer.
It
shows you're not intimidated and that you're trustworthy.
If you sit with eyes downcast and face turned away
it shows that you are not interested in what he is
talking.
- Don't
keep your arms and legs crossed. Crossed arms indicate
that the person is in a defensive and reserved mood.
Crossed arms and legs show that the person is very
reserved and suspicious.
- Conversely,
open arms and hands mean an open and receptive frame
of mind.
- Keep
your body relaxed, and turned towards the person you
are speaking with to show interest. Keeping your body
turned away shows disinterest.
Sitting
with your body and feet pointing towards a door indicates
that you want to end the conservation and leave the
room.
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Avoid rubbing or touching your nose when answering
a question it could be taken to mean you are not telling
the complete truth.
- Avoid
shaking or jiggling your legs or body, it could indicate
that you are nervous and uncomfortable.
And
what should you make of the interviewer's body language?
- If
he is standing before you with his hands inside the
pockets it means he is not sure or is suspicious.
- If
he is standing before you with his hands on his hips
it means he is receptive and ready to help you out.
- If
he rubs the back of his head or is rubbing or touching
the back of his neck it means he is not really finding
the conversation interesting.
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If he is holding or stroking his chin with the palm
of one hand, it means he is in an evaluating position
and possibly being critical
.
- If
he leans back in his chair with both hands clasped
behind his head he is in an analytical mood, but it
is also a gesture of superiority.
- If
he maintains good eye contact and he smiles in a relaxed
and happy way he is definitely receptive to you.
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